How 2 Fish Perspectives

1. Dr. Quandi: Who is Renatta Nikole and what made you want to take part in Bravo’s reality TV show, A Night with My Ex? Renatta Nikole: What can I say about myself? Ummm let's see…..this is hard (Renatta laughs). Well, I am a jack of all trades. I am an Artist, Cosmetologist, Writer, Designer, Payroll Administrator, and an Actress. I am creative and love creating innovative ideas and products. I am considered “quick on my toes” and spunky, which some may confuse it with the “short person complex” (Renatta laughs). I was born and raised in Chicago, have a degree in Marketing and Advertisement with a minor in Fashion. I enjoy being in a happy space and don’t take well when my happy vibe is disturbed. So, I joined Bravo’s Reality TV Show, “A Night with My Ex,” because the show contacted me. One of my exes was trying to get back in contact with me, and they [Bravo] inquired if I was ok with being in the same place with him [the ex]. At first, I was hesitant because I had just s...

By Dr. Quandi Jackson A client of mine asked, “Dr. Quandi, how do you feel about fathers handing their daughters over to a man for marriage as if she is a piece of property. Do women need permission? Should the man need permission as well?” I shared my perspective. Ancient times reveal that "giving the bride away" meant that the father was passing over his possession (his daughter) for another man's possession (his wife) in exchange for dowry.  Back then, and still today in some cultures, parents arrange marriages for their children. Fortunately, in these times, women are held more in high regard. Whether the bride or the groom, the peaceful decision to commit to each other should be a spiritually guided decision. Both the bride and groom know what feels right. Each has his and her own unique journey in life. The Inner Guide trumps parental guide and opinion any day; however, dialogue about the decision to marry is beneficial to the loved ones of the brid...